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Exclusive Grad Interview # 7 with David Gibson…
Jun 30th
“Ladies and Gentlemen, teachers and fellow graduates of the year 2000″
With these wonderful words David Gibson, our Valedictorian, began his infamous graduation speech….a speech that made us laugh, made us proud, and helped us put our High School experience and “the rest of our lives” into perspective.
I’m pleased to inform you that David Gibson, MBSS’s orator extraordinaire, is the subject of this interview!
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If there are any of you still undecided if you’ll come, or if you’re still thinking about skipping that shift or work day to come to the reunion, just do it!
Look forward to seeing a bunch of you all on Friday and Saturday THIS week!
Cheers,
Paxton & The Organizing Committee
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INTERVIEW WITH DAVID GIBSON:
WILL YOU BE ATTENDING THE REUNION? IF NOT, WHAT’S YOUR EXCUSE?
Yeah Megan Simon and Tyler Twerdun said they’d disown me if I don’t show, plus now that I know Mitch won’t be there and Dave Cunning will, added bonus ☺
WHERE ARE YOU LIVING AND WHAT ARE YOU UP TO THESE DAYS?
Freezing in Calgary, just killing time working for a bit until I move to San Diego. I did 4 years of college and 4 years of grad school, got a masters degree and found out I hated astrophysics so I quit my Phd in my 3rd year. So now I spend most of my time hanging out with my girlfriend and going on trips where I seem to get volunteered to do the bloody activities at the resort quite often. I’m the current champion of the “spin around a bat 10 times, drink 3 beers, swim across the pool, do 10 push ups and slam 2 more beers” game in Jamaica. Accepting all challengers haha.
MARRIED? KIDS?
Hahahahaha….hahaha….ha….no and hell no.
WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU READ OVER YOUR VALEDICTORIAN SPEECH? PROBABLY BEEN AWHILE, RIGHT? IF YOU DON’T MIND, COULD YOU FIND IT AND GIVE US ONE QUOTE YOU STILL AGREE WITH AND ONE THAT YOU DON’T.
See here’s the kicker, I had brain surgery right after high school, so I legitimately remember next to nothing about the events of high school, including giving this speech. I CAN answer according to what people told me about it after the fact though.
AGREE WITH: We need to make a positive contribution to society.
DISAGREE WITH: Treadgold’s lectures took forever, I’ve seen much worse in grad school.
HAVE YOU CHANGED MUCH SINCE HIGH SCHOOL?
Well, besides the receding hairline and ever-inflating waistline, I’m a little less outspoken and a little less high strung than I used to be. I had a pretty nasty temper back in the day but I’ve cooled off a bit over the years….but just a bit haha
ARE YOU STILL TOUCH WITH ANYONE FROM HIGH SCHOOL?
I really do have some of the best friends from high school so it made sense to keep in touch with them. I’ve known Tyler Twerdun, Jon Rowe and Dan Pinese since kindergarten. We continue to be close friends despite folks moving to various locations around the world. Greg Mackintosh was a close friend in high school but we became much closer after the fact. Megan Simon just wouldn’t leave me alone so yeah I’ve seen her lots too haha. Can never forget Dave Cunning either, he was always game to chase drunken me around Kelowna during my various vacations…..good times man haha. There’s been plenty of other folks I’ve spent time with here and there, they know who they are, but these guys have been around the most by far.
WHAT’S SOMETHING THAT YOU MISS ABOUT HIGH SCHOOL?
Simplicity of life. I found it much more enjoyable to think about the future and enjoy the various activities of my teen years than going through the various trials and tribulations of aging. I miss when the dream of being “a knight in shining armor” was still tangible.
WHAT WOULD YOU DO DIFFERENTLY IN HIGH SCHOOL IF YOU COULD DO IT AGAIN?
I should have joined drama and choir when I had the chance. It was the only time in my life it was actually available to try and I fear I may have missed that boat. Oh, and cooking, cause I’ve had to live most of my 20s being able to only cook mac and cheese and peanut butter sandwiches. I may be absent from our 25 year reunion if I can’t change that hahaha.
IN HIGH SCHOOL, COULD YOU HAVE IMAGINED YOURSELF WHERE YOU ARE NOW?
A lot of things worked out exactly as planned coming out of high school, but there were a lot of ideas I had about my future that never transpired. Obviously, not a professional baseball player haha but more than that, not married, no kids, not in the city I thought I’d be in. But hey, that’s what our 30s are for right ☺
WHAT’S A SIGNIFICANT LIFE LESSON THAT YOU’VE LEARNED IN THE PAST 10 YEARS SINCE HIGH SCHOOL?
Don’t try and force something on yourself. I found out that what I was studying in school didn’t give me any satisfaction and should have switched to something else much sooner than I did. After I quit my PhD (oh yeah, btw I went for a PhD and quit haha), I discovered there were a lot of things I was trying to force myself into, instead of accepting the fact that certain things weren’t going to work for me.
WHAT HAVE YOU BEEN READING AND/OR WATCHING LATELY?
School killed recreational reading for me, so outside of quick glances at newspapers and various news websites, I stay out of reading. I’m a pretty hardcore tv/movie junkie, I watch a plethora of shows and enjoy watching a lot of movies. Lost (weak ending btw), CSI, Law and Order, Survivor, etc etc etc…it’s a pretty long list. Just recently saw Toy Story 3 as well, it was bloody awesome, definitely go see that ☺
WHAT DO YOU LOOK FORWARD TO ACCOMPLISHING IN THE FUTURE?
Living up to my own expectations. Out of high school I thought I knew what I wanted, but I found out later on in life I wanted something different, now I get to go get it ☺
ANYTHING ELSE YOU’D LIKE TO SAY / SHARE?
I just want to thank all those ex classmates that I’ve ran into over the last 10 years. It was always educational and sometimes destructive (like the fact that I’ve run into Paul Atkin about 100 times since high school and I still have a hard time remembering what it is we did during those times….thanks for the drinks man lol).
Exclusive Grad Interview # 2 with Joni Frei…
Jun 14th
Continuing the Exclusive Grad Interviews leading up to my 10 year High School reunion, my 2nd interview is with Joni Frei.
WILL YOU BE ATTENDING THE REUNION? IF NOT, WHAT’S YOUR EXCUSE?
Not quite sure yet. I’m going to try. I have company coming in from out of town and also a softball tournament that weekend….but I’m going to try….Luckily there’s facebook to keep up with everyone and get updates from if needed
WHERE ARE YOU LIVING AND WHAT ARE YOU UP TO THESE DAYS?
Recently moved back to Canada after living in the States for the last 10 years. After high school I moved to Georgia and went to university on a softball scholarship. Played 4 years in university and upon graduation with my undergrad I moved to Europe to play professionally. Met my husband while I was playing (he played baseball for the same club that I played softball for) Moved back to the States and coached at a Division I University while getting my Masters Degree. Took a position at another Division I University to teach in Health Sciences and coach varsity softball. Moved to Europe for a season to coach the Austrian National Softball Team. Recently moved back to Canada after my brother passed away. Loving being back in Kelowna. I forgot how much I love Canada. The weather and scenery are absolutely amazing! Kelowna is a little small for my liking (compared to Atlanta, Georgia) but it’s a nice change. I work at The Next Level Athlete Development Center. Which is a huge multi-purpose facility out by the airport. In addition I contract with Softball Canada and Softball B.C. as a coaching facilitator. All in all life is good.
MARRIED? KIDS?
Married. No kids.
DID YOU DO ANY POST-SECONDARY EDUCATION?
Undergraduate degree in Kinesiology and Teacher Education Certification….Masters Degree in Political Science with a Discipline in Public Administration
HAVE YOU CHANGED MUCH SINCE HIGH SCHOOL?
Yes and no. I think I still have the same personality but I’m definitely more open-minded now.
ARE YOU STILL TOUCH WITH ANYONE FROM HIGH SCHOOL?
Actually yep, still best friends with Ashley Martinuk and still talk to a bunch of them thanks to facebook. I definitely enjoy catching up with old friends though.
WHAT’S SOMETHING THAT YOU MISS ABOUT HIGH SCHOOL?
I don’t really “miss” high school…but I fondly remember high school sports and the teams I was a part of.
WHAT WOULD YOU DO DIFFERENTLY IN HIGH SCHOOL IF YOU COULD DO IT AGAIN?
Nothing. Well actually, maybe I wouldn’t have driven my truck down that huge hill at Grad Campout and gotten stuck….Other than that, nothing
IN HIGH SCHOOL, COULD YOU HAVE IMAGINED YOURSELF DOING WHAT YOU ARE DOING NOW?
Absolutely! I live my dream job.
WHAT’S A SIGNIFICANT LIFE LESSON THAT YOU’VE LEARNED IN THE PAST 10 YEARS SINCE HIGH SCHOOL?
To do full justice in answering this question would require a series of books I think….but simply put….hard work pays off, life is fragile—enjoy today because tomorrow is not promised, everyone has something to offer, having a passion for life is essential to happiness…passion, independence, open-mindedness, empathy and confidence breed success….
ANY INTERESTING BOOKS THAT YOU’VE READ LATELY OR MOVIES THAT YOU’VE WATCHED?
Between The White Lines (Softball Documentary)
WHAT DO YOU LOOK FORWARD TO ACCOMPLISHING IN THE FUTURE?
Mentoring and significantly impacting the lives of the athletes/students that I work with in a positive fashion. Making a difference.
ANYTHING ELSE YOU’D LIKE TO SAY / SHARE?
If you’ve read this far, thanks! I’d love to hear from you!
You can reach Joni via http://www.thenextlevelcamps.com/
From Joni’s email signature:
Joni Frei
MPA, B.Kin, TSCC-BRONZE, NCCP L2
Softball Canada CANpitch Regional Pitching Instructor
Softball B.C. Learning Facilitator
Director of Softball Operations
Twist Strength & Conditioning Coach
“A Mind That is Stretched By A New Experience Can Never Go Back To Its Old Dimensions” -Peter Twist
“Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.” -Ralph Waldo Emerson
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Stay tuned for the next interview! And more importantly, don’t forget to RSVP! Oh, and feel free to say hello on the facebook event wall. do it!
Cheers,
Paxton
Exclusive Grad Interview #1 is with Justin Bourne…
Jun 9th
Justin Bourne & his bride-to-be, Brianna Gillies
I’m trying to do a few interviews with Grads leading up to my BIG 10 Year Reunion on July 3rd, and I’m pleased to announce that my first Q & A is with Justin Bourne – an old hockey and golf team mate of mine. I had heard through the grapevine that he was doing some professional hockey writing and I’m happy that he was willing to do this!
WILL YOU BE ATTENDING THE REUNION? IF NOT, WHAT’S YOUR EXCUSE?
Unfortunately, I won’t be attending the reunion for a couple reasons. 1) Time: A good friend is getting married in Minneapolis the same weekend. 2) No sidekick: Without Casey Fodor or Carly Burke, I’m afraid no one will recognize me.
WHERE ARE YOU LIVING AND WHAT ARE YOU UP TO THESE DAYS?
I’m living in Phoenix, and writing about sports (mostly hockey). I played up to the AHL, then busted my face and started writing while I healed up. It caught on, and I switched careers. Now I contribute to USA Today, The Hockey News, Yahoo’s “Puck Daddy” and run a blog at www.jtbourne.com
MARRIED? KIDS?
Engaged. My lovely bride-to-be, Brianna Gillies, was my next door neighbor in NY from 0-6 years old (our Dad’s played on the Islanders together). We re-met in 2005 when my Dad was inducted into the Isles Hall-of-Fame, and we’re living together in Arizona. She’s an Occupational Therapist at St. Joseph’s Hospital (Barrow Neurological Institute)
DID YOU DO ANY POST-SECONDARY EDUCATION?
I did. I spent four years in Alaska on a hockey scholarship, getting my degree in psychology.
WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU LOOKED AT YOUR HIGH SCHOOL YEARBOOK?
Ha, no idea. High school? I made awful hair decisions.
ARE YOU STILL TOUCH WITH ANYONE FROM HIGH SCHOOL?
Yep, I’d say I’m closest with Dave Cunning and Neil Corbett from my days at Mt. Boucherie. And Mr. Treadgold. We hang out all the time.
WHAT WOULD YOU DIFFERENTLY IN HIGH SCHOOL IF YOU COULD DO IT AGAIN?
Drink. I would drink like a fish and not get hungover.
WHAT’S SOMETHING THAT YOU MISS ABOUT HIGH SCHOOL?
In class, I’d say being at the back of Mrs. Heymen’s English class (look Mrs. H, I’m a writer!). Out of class, I’d say sitting in Paul Hampson’s basement and playing NHL ’00 on Playstation.
ANY FAVOURITE GOOD (OR BAD) MEMORIES THAT YOU’D LIKE TO SHARE ABOUT YOUR HIGH SCHOOL DAYS?
No, but I have a question: do they still let you skip an absurd amount of class and never really ask many questions? How was that ever possible?
WHAT DO YOU HOPE TO HAVE ACCOMPLISHED BY THE 20 YEAR REUNION?
I’d like to have a kid, have a much higher paid writing/tv analyst gig, and not be absurdly fat. My metabolism is slower than Mr. Fowler was in Grade Nine Social Studies.
ANYTHING ELSE YOU’D LIKE TO SAY / SHARE?
Yeah, if you haven’t read any of my work, give it a go – I’d start with the stuff at Yahoo’s Puck Daddy or my blog. Also, sorry I couldn’t make it. Would’ve been nice to see everyone.
BONUS QUESTION: Who’s gonna win the Stanley Cup this year?
I think Chicago wins the first road game of the series in Philly to win it in six!
You can reach Justin at: jtbourne@gmail.com
His blog site is: www.jtbourne.com
ABOUT JUSTIN BOURNE (From Justin’s Blog)
I’m a hockey player turned writer. After playing for Alaska Anchorage in the WCHA (NCAA), I carried on with a NHL tryout (New York Islanders in 2007) before spending a couple seasons in the AHL/ECHL. My father, Bob Bourne, won four Stanley Cups with the Islanders in the ’80′s, as did my fiancee’s dad, Clark Gillies. I’m now a columnist for USA Today, The Hockey News and Hockey Primetime.com.

